6 Important Things In Doing Networking

Inevitably, with the right networking, one can achieve success in your career, although he did not control or achievement in the field. But behind all this activity, networking is fun and not hard to do. Reported by Sheknows, the following six important steps to master the science of networking.

 

1. Palm-Up Networking
When you establish a connection, whether you give or receive? 'Palm-Up' Networking is a term which we provide services and do not expect any compensation. When you do a 'Palm-Down', means you're selfish. Palm-Up is similar to personal sincerity, while Palm Down means greed. Give it more and everything will get back to you.

2. Do Appreciation Day
Praise someone different every day. You can also do it via e-mail. Believe it or not, those who receive e-mails of praise or thanks this will keep it and remember you. Do it by directly calling is not a problem. Simply put, say how you appreciate his efforts and any person who has made it so precious in your eyes. Do not fictitious and they will be flattered and happy heart.

 

3. Align Yourself with Other People
Everyone does have different values ​​in each eye of the beholder. But basically all humans are equal, even though he superiors and subordinates. Not that someone who is rich, famous and powerful is better than you. All have advantages and disadvantages of each.

 

Train yourself, thus, will be resolved and awkward sense of comfort talking to whoever will emerge. Life success can come from anywhere if you are able to communicate well with everyone. 

 

4. Rolodex Dip
This is a term in which you randomly choose a name from your database list. Think about the things you like about them or the good relationship that has existed so far. Call that person and ask them the news. You will be surprised how happy they were to hear from you.

 

5. Selecting 'Teacher Today'
Take an object or person, and make it as a 'teacher'. Remember what lessons he gave in your life. 'Teacher' This could be someone who means so much to you, loyal pets that accompany you, or a favorite plant that needs to be watered every day until he grew up and beautify your room.

 

In essence, this activity can help that life does not revolve only to you alone. There is still much to be learned and you have actually given the opportunity to learn without realizing it. Conjunction with networking? Do this and see the difference a positive attitude of others toward you.

 

6. If You Do not Mood
Party, exhibitions, meetings, and all the crowds who bring groups of people in one common purpose is a wonderful opportunity for networking. But sometimes the mood is not good and should continue to deal with. What to do?

•  Determine the time. Come and talk for 30 minutes, from there you can decide whether to continue much longer.
• Set goals. Specify how many new acquaintances that you should get. Remember, your goal is not just to meet and swap business cards. Connections are formed of a meaningful conversation that became the real goal. 
• Let your instincts guide you. It sounds silly, but it always works to try. Pause at the corner of the crowd. Empty your mind. Think in your mind what kind of people who want to meet. After that, begin to enter the crowd back and see the difference.
•  Connect yourself. You must be connected with someone. When you are asking them questions like: How do you start your current job? Who is your ideal customer? You will also automatically tell who you are. It can bridge a new connection between the two of you. You also can offer some help to him.
• Assistance and follow-up. If you offer assistance, adjust an idea of what you see on his card (corporate and field positions). Commit to help him and do it. If you have produced an idea from a brief chat, please feel free to connect a chat in the next meeting. Offer lunch or coffee together. There is a saying, 90% of life is meeting. Wrong! 90% of life is a follow-up! 

   

Damping fights With Respect Couple

Disputes can strengthen the marriage bond. However, if the quantity is excessive, the dispute can be just the boomerang. Better damping it with a sense of mutual respect.

 

To appreciate the couple, no need to do the complex. Here are some tips to appreciate the couple as quoted from Sheknows :

  

1.Say it "Thank You"Say it thank you is the simplest form of appreciation. Thank you for every thing done for your husband will make her feel appreciated. He also would always try to give everything for his beloved wife. 

 

2. PraiseRather than find fault mate, it's better try to dig what the excess. To remember the things that make you fall in love with him. Give it a sincere compliment. Compliments of the women who loved going to make the day more worthwhile.

4 Tips Fire Warm Love In Marriage

Do not let your marriage go stale and unpleasant. We recommend that you continue to keep the existing fire romance. Here's how. Various ways can be done to maintain domestic harmony. Some tips from this Dailymail can help you.

 

1. Dispose Call Darling

    Call affection is indeed a special call for the couple. But when your relationship was annual, call it just a normal call. No longer feel the vibration when you mention it. To restore harmony, instead of calling it by name partner affection. 

 

This will remind your memory like when you first met. Initially may seem rigid, but it's stiffness will excite you and your partner, like a first date first.

10 Things Simple For More Happy & Healthy

You know, there are ten simple things that can make you happier and avoid the disease? Here are ten things.

It was ascertained that the happiness of one's effect on health. As quoted from geniusbeauty, an American psychologist found that there are ten simple factors that icrease the happiness and health someone.

The study, written in the journal The Psychological Science, explains that those who have the ability to be happy because of the simple things will be spared from the diseases of old age. Not only that, they too can live seven years longer than people who do not do these ten things simple.

Forgiveness

A Mother's kindergarten teacher held a "game". The teacher asked the children each bring their students a transparent plastic bag of fruit and potatoes. Each potato was given the name based on the name of the person hated. Thus the number of non-specified how many potatoes, depending on the number of people he hated.

On the agreed day each student took the potatoes in a plastic bag. There is a distinguished number 2, there are 3 even have a 5. As their teacher commands, each potato is named after the name of the person hated. The students should bring a plastic bag containing these potatoes wherever they go, even to the toilet though, for 1 week.

Day by day, the potatoes began to rot, the students began to complain, let alone that brought 5 pieces of potato, in addition to heavy smell too bad. After 1 week of kindergarten students are relieved that their ordeal will end soon.

Stress Gone With Hugs

How often do you hug a husband, boyfriend, brother or your best friend? Do not under estimate efficacy of a hug. Because according to the study, a hug can relieve stress.

 

Based on research results released by the journal Psychosomatic Medicine, a warm hug to release oxytocin, a hormone associated with feelings of love and peace. These hormones will suppress the hormone that causes stress on the body initially languished.

Feng Shui Right To Life Love More Powerful

 Fengshui science is not new anymore. Many people who decorate his house with the guidance of Chinese origin science.

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Many people believe, if the Feng Shui of a house is true, then a lot of positive energy flowing in and give happiness and health for the owner. Launched stvalentinesday, Feng Shui it can affect the merits of the relationship between two lovebirds.

Here are some suggestions from the science of Feng Shui, for the sake of preserving the integrity of the relationship :

I Love U, mas Kaka

This is a story about my nephew. His name is Arkasena but we usually called it with Kaka. Since he was 3 days at hospital after he was born, I sang a song for him. It's a children song like Lullaby song ( Nina Bobo), Lihat Kebunku, Satu-satu Aku Sayang Ibu, etc. When he was at the hospital, he cried very loud. At that time, his mother at the bathroom for taking a bath. I looked after him and picking him into my hand and start to talk with him.

I said to Kaka if his mother is in the bathroom. I start to sing a song. First time, he's still crying but I don't care. I touch his forehead and his face. Not too long, he's felt asleep. His mother was shock when she finished. She looking for her son was sleep. I said to her if I sang a song for him. Until now, he only can sleep if I sang a song for him or I read it a book for him.

It's true....Until one night, when I try to make his sister asleep. I start to sing a song and suddenly I saw mas Kaka with his eyes still close, he's running over me and sleep close to me :).
Now, I realize that he's jealous with his sister. I still love you, mas Kaka....U're my sunshine and make me want to be a good mother also my inspire to have my own Kaka....amin :)

Love and Jealousy

Love, at the beginning is a game and at the end is seriousness. He can't be drawn but it must be do to know it. Religion didn't reject and the rules didn't forbid, because hearts is on the GOD's hand. He can make contradictory. If we talked about love, there are much love, there is love for Allah, love for human, even there is love for homeland, animal, etc depends on the definition of love. Love for human is different too.

There are love for man / woman, for our husband / wife, kids, mother, sister / brother and another people. Sometimes love can grow fast, sometimes can fade or love can be contrary slow to grow and slow to fade even there is love that hold out. The power of love in somebody are different and so with the period. True love between human are more intense if there are same characteristic among lovers.

This taste that push and makes love strong. It said by the great ulama Ibn Qayyim al - Jauziyah that lived in the middle of the 8th century (691 - 751 H / 1292 - 1350 M). If that so, love doesn't enough with the same characteristic with our couple's like but love must be realize and feel it with the partner.To avoid our love dreary, love created something that called "jealous" to remind couples about "me" so that both of them realize there are two "me" in their conversations and meet in one purpose not to make it one. Love can be draw as a bundling between hopes and worried. Love same as belief, that form as an effort to expose the truth. But, hopes and worried must be balance because if worried over than hopes, then will be born, over jealousy that can bury love while if there isn't hopes so the love doesn't warm and can dreary moreover their relationship can be broken. Feel of afraid and worried is a part of love substance, but it must be proportional, because if over he can make "blind jealousy" that is a feel of loss our love and sicerity our couple.

Remember! We must make different two kind of jealousy, (a) jealous that can make effort to maintain our marriage and dammed from anything that can destroy our marriage, dan (b) jealous that come from "third part" try to take our couple's sympathy and affection. If that so, there is jealous with the reason and there is jealous without reason. If jealous without reason it can't make right. It's a proof of "over worried plus somebody's defeat against himself. because love and sicerity can not be reach if there is force or pass through our suspicious and supervision. Love can be reach with struggled that covered with freedom and control. For us, control means our belief and our culture. ( From Pengantin Al - Quran, page 24 - 25 and 32 - 33)

Message for women

Imam Al Bukhari and Moslem said from Abu Hurairah r.a which told that Muhammad SAW ever told that, “ Everyone who trust in Allah and The End of the day, so please speak right or be quiet also give instruction to women. Because women made from rib. Ribs are something bend, and always need protection. If we force, so they will broken but if we ignore in bend condition, so they still bend. Give good advice for women. (From “BUKU SAKU NIKAH”, page 67).